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		<title>Are &#8220;Hefty Fees&#8221; Really A Drawback of the Reverse Mortgage?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 May 2012 03:37:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Paterson, MLO #342859</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[An all too common statement is that a drawback of the reverse mortgage is the hefty or high up front fees.  But are they really hefty?  Are the fees really a drawback?

First, have you looked at the fees to obtain a conventional mortgage?   Do you realize the reverse mortgage fees compare to a conventional mortgage with the FHA Mortgage Insurance Premium being the difference?  I’ve done side-by-side comparisons.  Read the story here http://wp.me/pxPEm-yM<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com&#038;blog=8063370&#038;post=2156&#038;subd=bethsreversemortgageblog&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/1house-expenses-dollars.jpg"><img class="alignright  wp-image-2173" title="Are Reverse Mortgage Closing Costs Really High?" src="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/1house-expenses-dollars.jpg?w=272&h=181" alt="Are Reverse Mortgage Closing Costs Really High?" width="272" height="181" /></a>An all too common statement is that a drawback of the reverse mortgage is the hefty or high up front fees.  But are they really hefty?  Are the fees really a drawback?</p>
<p><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>First, have you looked at the fees to obtain a conventional mortgage?   Do you realize the reverse mortgage fees compare to a conventional mortgage with the FHA Mortgage Insurance Premium being the difference? </strong></span> I’ve done <a title="Comparing Reverse Mortgage Closing Costs To A Conventional Mortgage – You’ll Be Surprised They Are Not That Different" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2011/07/24/1802comparing-reverse-mortgage-closing-costs-to-a-conventional-mortgage-youll-be-surprised-they-are-not-that-different/" target="_blank">side-by-side comparisons</a>.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color:#800080;">These comparisons reflect the<a title="Do You Understand The Minnesota Reverse Mortgage Closing Costs?" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2010/05/24/do-you-understand-the-minnesota-reverse-mortgage-closing-costs/" target="_blank"><span style="color:#800080;"> third-party fees</span></a>, including the appraisal, credit report, flood certificate, title fees, recording fees, Minnesota Mortgage Registration Tax, etc. are almost identical.</span></strong>  Actually because HUD regulates the fees, mark-up and junk fees or processing fees aren’t allowed so the third-party fees may even be a little less than a conventional mortgage.</p>
<p><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>Another fee associated with both the reverse mortgage and a conventional mortgage is the origination fee, the fee that covers the lender’s time and costs associated with originating the loan including</strong></span>: loan officer’s and staff’s salary, licensing, administrative costs, business overhead (computers, electricity, health insurance, marketing, processing, underwriting,) etc.  The underwriting fees are generally additional fees on conventional loans but have to be included in the origination fee on FHA reverse mortgages loans.</p>
<p><span style="color:#008000;"><strong>On a conventional mortgage one can “buy” a lower interest by paying a higher origination fee or a lower interest rate with a higher origination fee.  The reverse mortgage is similar however the rate versus paying an origination fee or not is determined by the product (fixed or adjustable rate) and what the lender sets as allowable.</strong></span>  For example, with the fixed rate one may have zero origination fee but the interest is a set amount determined by the lender or there may be a lower interest rate but the FHA allowable origination fee is included.  (2% of the first $200,000, 1% on thereafter, with a cap of $6,000). <span style="color:#800080;"><strong> Again the fee is comparable between a reverse mortgage and a conventional mortgage.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>The fee that really makes the difference from a conventional mortgage is the FHA Mortgage Insurance Premium (MIP).</strong></span>  The most common reverse mortgage, and only one available in Minnesota, is the HUD Home Equity Conversion Mortgage or HECM.  With the Standard Reverse Mortgage the up-front MIP is 2% of the home value.  (The MIP on a forward FHA loan is currently 1.75%.)</p>
<p>The many benefits of paying the FHA MIP on the reverse mortgage include:</p>
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<li>Guaranteeing the funds are available for you.</li>
<li>Guaranteeing the lender against default or shortfalls</li>
<li>Keeping the interest rates lower, the interest rates have historically been lower compared to other mortgages.</li>
<li>Providing a line of credit growth rate (available only with reverse mortgages).</li>
<li>Ensuring as a reverse mortgage it is a non-recourse (no personal liability) loan; FHA makes up the difference if the loan balance is higher than what the home can be sold for.</li>
<li>Requiring counseling by a third-party HUD trained and approved counselor.</li>
<li>The HECMs are highly protected.  See my Blog article “<a title="You Need To Know Reverse Mortgage Borrowers Are Highly Protected" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2010/03/07/you-need-to-know-reverse-mortgage-borrowers-are-highly-protected/" target="_blank">You Need To know Reverse Mortgage Borrowers Are Highly Protected.”</a></li>
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<blockquote><p><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>One must understand that the reverse mortgage is an open-ended term loan (the due date on the mortgage is the youngest borrower’s 150th birthday*) with no limit to how high the balance can grow and the collateral is only limited to the property (a non-recourse loan with no personal liability to the borrower or the heirs).  With FHA’s generous allowance of proceeds, not based on income, assets, or credit scores, some reverse mortgages will end up with loan balances higher than the value of the home either due to the current declining home values or the nature of the loan with no monthly payments being made and accrued interest and on-going FHA MIP (essentially one is borrowing these fees each month).  Therefore the MIP and other closing costs are necessary to make the program viable and are not a drawback to the reverse mortgage.</strong></span></p></blockquote>
<p><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>When comparing the costs of a conventional mortgage to the HECM Saver program which reduces the upfront MIP to .01%, the fees are essentially the same.</strong></span>  However, in exchange for the reduced upfront MIP, reverse mortgage borrowers receive fewer funds and the interest rate is higher.</p>
<p>It’s important to note that the fees become part of the reverse mortgage loan balance &#8211; there are no out-of-pocket fees other than the cost of the appraisal.  So borrowers are not required to come up with the money to cover the fees before they do a reverse mortgage.</p>
<p><span style="color:#008000;"><strong>If one thinks about it selling one’s home could also be considered expensive with similar fees to the reverse mortgage (the generally higher real estate agent&#8217;s commission and again the FHA MIP is the difference).  Are the real estate commission and closing fees a drawback to selling one’s home?</strong></span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color:#008000;">Besides looking at the costs of a conventional loan or selling one&#8217;s home, how expensive are credit cards?  While they don’t have up front costs, the interest on credit cards can be outrageous which over time this can make the credit card expensive.</span></strong>  We often find seniors have high credit card debt because that is what they are using to finance their living expenses. <span style="color:#008000;"><strong> The cost of credit cards don’t seem to be a drawback, people still get and use credit cards.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#800080;"><strong><a href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/1woman-w-dog.jpg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-2176" title="Reverse Mortgage benefits outweighed the costs" src="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/1woman-w-dog.jpg?w=157&h=163" alt="Reverse Mortgage benefits outweighed the costs" width="157" height="163" /></a>If a senior can’t afford to make mortgage payments, if they need funds for repairs, for home care or medical expenses, for daily living expenses, for the extra elbow room, funds to make that trip for a family reunion or wedding, or even to be able to check something off their bucket list, the benefits may outweigh the costs.  The security, independence, dignity and control and peace of mind received from the reverse mortgage may outweigh the costs.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#008000;"><strong>Do you not refinance or purchase a home because the of the fees on a conventional loan?  And what about the costs of surgery?  Would you not have surgery if it would improve or save your life just because of the fees?  The cost of food is going up but do you do without food because of the costs?   Not if the benefits outweigh the costs, right?  Well, if the benefits of the reverse mortgage outweigh the costs, then the fees are not a drawback of the reverse mortgage.</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;">*The reverse mortgage is due and payable when the home is no longer the primary residence of the borrower(s), i.e. when they sell, move, die.  The due date on the reverse mortgage is the 150th birthday of the youngest borrower rather than a 15 or 30 year term on a conventional mortgage.</p>
<p style="text-align:right;"><a title="Beth's Reverse Mortgage Blog" href="http://BethsReverseMortgageBlog.wordpress.com" target="_blank">© 2012 Beth Paterson http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com 651-762-9648</a></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong>This material may be re-posted provided it is re-posted in its entirety without modifications and includes the contact information, copyright information and the following link:  <a title="Are &quot;Hefty Fees&quot; Really A Drawback of the Reverse Mortgage?" href="http://wp.me/pxPEm-yM" target="_blank">http://wp.me/pxPEm-yM</a></strong></span></p>
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<li><a title="Comparing Reverse Mortgage Closing Costs To A Conventional Mortgage – You’ll Be Surprised They Are Not That Different" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2011/07/24/1802comparing-reverse-mortgage-closing-costs-to-a-conventional-mortgage-youll-be-surprised-they-are-not-that-different/" target="_blank">Comparing Reverse Mortgage Closing Costs To A Conventional Mortgage&#8230; You’ll Be Surprised They Are Not That Different.</a></li>
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		<title>A Reverse Mortgage Doesn&#8217;t Leave An Inheritance.  But How Are You Going To Meet Mom&#8217;s Needs Today?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 19:02:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth Paterson, MLO #342859</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A reverse mortgage provides for Mom's needs today“I want to leave an inheritance for my kids.”  “I want my son to get my house.”  “The reverse mortgage will eat up my inheritance.”  “The reverse mortgage isn’t good for the kids.”  “The reverse mortgage should only be done with those who don’t have children.” These are statements that are often seen or heard when a reverse mortgage is mentioned.  My question is, do you, the children, have the money needed to cover the costs of mom or dad’s needs today if they don’t have the money and don’t do a reverse mortgage?  Let me share a story.    http://wp.me/pxPEm-yv<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com&#038;blog=8063370&#038;post=2139&#038;subd=bethsreversemortgageblog&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/1asiangrandmagrandaughters.jpg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-2141" title="A reverse mortgage provides for Mom's needs today" src="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/1asiangrandmagrandaughters.jpg?w=176&h=266" alt="A reverse mortgage provides for Mom's needs today" width="176" height="266" /></a>“I want to leave an inheritance for my kids.”  “I want my son to get my house.”  “The reverse mortgage will eat up my inheritance.”  “The reverse mortgage isn’t good for the kids.”  “The reverse mortgage should only be done with those who don’t have children.” <span style="color:#800080;"><strong><span style="color:#008000;">These are statements that are often seen or heard when a reverse mortgage is mentioned. </span></strong> <strong>My question is, do you, the children, have the money needed to cover the costs of mom or dad’s needs today if they don’t have the money and don’t do a reverse mortgage?</strong></span></p>
<p><strong>Let me share a story.  As I always do, I have a discussion on the needs and desires of one who is considering a Home Equity Conversion Mortgage (HECM) or a reverse mortgage.  In this one particular situation, the woman, Chris, was living off her Social Security income of about $600 a month.  <span style="color:#008000;">She needed new teeth, new glasses, some new clothes, and her home needed some repairs.  She loved going to plays but couldn’t even afford the community plays for $5 to $10.  </span><span style="color:#800080;">Doing a reverse mortgage would help Chris “live with more” so she completed the application.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color:#008000;">A few days later she called to say she decided not to proceed</span></strong>. When I inquired why the change, she replied that <strong><span style="color:#008000;">her son didn’t want her to do it.  After some exploratory questions as to why, she said her son wanted her home after she had passed away so he could rent it out and make money.</span></strong></p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>How outrageous is this?</strong></span>  <strong><span style="color:#008000;">Was she really going to do without all the things she needed as basic necessities not to mention just being able to have some money for a few extra things to enjoy life while she’s still alive just so her son could make money off her house after she passed away?</span></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>While I was astounded by this response, <span style="color:#800080;"><strong>I kept my tongue in check and calmly asked her if her son was going to provide the money she needed now or was she going to do without the glasses, teeth, clothes, and home repairs so her son could benefit after she passed away.</strong></span> <span style="color:#008000;"> <strong>She said, “Of course not, he doesn’t have the money to help me.”</strong></span></p>
<blockquote><p><strong><span style="color:#008000;">Is living from Social Security check to Social Security check just to get by and maybe doing without some of the things in life that give dignity such as having lunch with friends, getting one’s hair done, or having cable TV really a good option over a reverse mortgage?  Why should one be more concerned about leaving an inheritance than having their independence and control of their life and living comfortably?  Why do children think they deserve an inheritance rather than their parents being able to live comfortably, have security, independence, dignity and control of their lives?  Aren’t these the same things every one of us want?  Why would you deny your parents?</span></strong></p></blockquote>
<p><span style="color:#008000;"><strong>Even if one’s children are able to help their parents today, do their parents really want to be dependent on their children?  What happens if “life happens” to their children, they lose their job, get sick, have to come up with money to pay for their kid’s college, etc. and they no longer have the funds to help their parents?  This can impact everyone!</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#008000;"><strong>What if one needs home care or has medical expenses?  Why should one do without needed care so they can leave an inheritance?  Why do children think they should receive an inheritance over their parents having the dignity of paying for their own care and expenses?</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#008000;"><strong>If one moves into senior housing, whether independent living, assisted living or skilled care, does one really think there will be funds left to leave for an inheritance?  Or will the children have to help pay for the senior housing?  Whether private pay or services paid by Medicaid or other government funds, there may not be an inheritance.</strong></span></p>
<blockquote><p><strong><span style="color:#800080;">And who’s money is it anyway?  Who should benefit from the use of funds or assets that the senior worked so hard for?  Shouldn’t the money and assets be used for whatever one’s parents need or want?</span></strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Many seniors say, “My kids are doing better than I am.”  This is often the case but even if this isn’t the case, why should one be concerned about leaving money after their gone?</p>
<p>A reverse mortgage is a loan against one’s home to allow seniors 62 and older to remain in their home with security, independence, dignity and control.  The most common, and only one available in Minnesota, is the FHA insured HECM.  The reverse mortgage offers many benefits including no monthly mortgage payment requirements, and no income or credit requirements to qualify for a low interest rate.  The loan is due and payable when the home is no longer the primary residence of the borrower(s) or on the 150th birthday of the youngest borrower.  As a non-recourse loan, if the loan balance is higher than what the home can be sold for at fair market value, the borrower or their estate are not responsible for the difference.  And the opposite is true too, if the loan balance is lower than what the home is sold for, the borrower or their estate receive the difference.</p>
<p>The borrower remains the owner of the home with the title staying in the name of the borrower(s).  In addition, the reverse mortgage has many protections, likely more than any other financial product or service.  To learn what these are read, “<a title="You Need To Know Reverse Mortgage Borrowers Are Highly Protected!" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2010/03/07/you-need-to-know-reverse-mortgage-borrowers-are-highly-protected/" target="_blank">You Need To Know Reverse Mortgage Borrowers Are Highly Protected.”</a></p>
<p><a href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/1bigstockphoto_old_women_playing_cards__398706.jpg"><img class="alignright  wp-image-2143" title="A reverse mortgage provides security, independence, dignity and controls security, independence, dignity and control" src="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/1bigstockphoto_old_women_playing_cards__398706.jpg?w=330&h=217" alt="A reverse mortgage provides security, independence, dignity and control" width="330" height="217" /></a><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>I’m happy to say Chris did proceed with her reverse mortgage.  And for the last six years I’ve received at least one call, sometimes a couple calls a year, saying she’s so relieved to have the money to meet her needs.  Besides the initial needs, she has had funds to fix her car when it needed some repairs, to cover some medical expenses and she had funds to take a trip to attend a family wedding.  And yes, she’s even enjoy the community plays every now and then.</strong></span></p>
<p>Once Chris passes away her son will have the opportunity to keep the home by obtaining a conventional mortgage to pay off the reverse mortgage.  If he’s renting the property out, the rent payments he will be receiving will cover the mortgage payment &#8211; he could still make money if priced accordingly.  In the mean time Chris is remaining in her home with the security, independence, dignity and control she deserves and enjoying her life.</p>
<p><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>So what do you think is better?  Doing without today just so a child can have an inheritance or the senior being able to fulfill one’s needs and wants while they are alive?</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align:right;"><a title="Beth's Reverse Mortgage Blog" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com">© 2012 Beth Paterson http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com 651-762-9648</a></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong>This material may be re-posted provided it is re-posted in its entirety without modifications and includes the contact information, copyright information and the following link:</strong>  <a title="A Reverse Mortgage Doesn't Leave An Inheritance.  But How Are You Going To Meet Mom's Needs Today?" href="http://wp.me/pxPEm-yv" target="_blank"><span style="color:#ff0000;">http://wp.me/pxPEm-yv</span></a></span></p>
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<li><a title="A Reverse Mortgage Should Be A Last Resort… To What?" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2011/06/07/a-reverse-mortgage-should-be-a-last-resort-to-what/" target="_blank"> A Reverse Mortgage Should Be A Last Resort&#8230; To What?</a></li>
<li><a title="You Need To Know That With A Reverse Mortgage You Remain in Control" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2011/10/11/you-need-to-know-that-with-a-reverse-mortgage-you-remain-in-control/" target="_blank">You Need To Know That With A Reverse Mortgage You Remain in Control</a></li>
<li><a title="Reverse Mortgages Come To The Rescue for Senior Homeowners" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2010/02/28/reverse-mortgages-come-to-the-rescue-for-senior-homeowners/" target="_blank">Reverse Mortgages Come To The Rescue of Senior Homeowners</a></li>
<li><a title="Reverse Mortgage Allowed Creation of Memories for Family" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2011/03/05/reverse-mortgage-allowed-creation-of-memories-for-family/" target="_blank"> Reverse Mortgage Allowed for Creation of Memories for Family</a></li>
<li><a title="Is your opinion of reverse mortgages denying seniors?" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2009/09/28/is-your-opinion-of-reverse-mortgages-denying-seniors/" target="_blank">Is Your Opinion of Reverse Mortgages Denying Seniors?</a></li>
<li><a title="Know a Senior Who Wants Security, Independence, Dignity, and Control?  A Reverse Mortgage May Be The Answer!" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2009/09/21/know-a-senior-who-wants-security-independence-dignity-and-control-a-reverse-mortgage-may-be-the-answer/" target="_blank">Know A Senior Who Wants Security, Independence, Dignity and Control?  A Reverse Mortgage May Be The Answer!</a></li>
<li><a title="“Our Reverse Mortgage Is Great. Gives Us Some Elbow Room.” And More Testimonies by Reverse Mortgage Borrowers" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2011/09/25/%e2%80%9cour-reverse-mortgage-is-great-gives-us-some-elbow-room-%e2%80%9d-and-more-testimonies-by-reverse-mortgage-borrowers/" target="_blank">“Our Reverse Mortgage Is Great. Gives Us Some Elbow Room.” And More Testimonies by Reverse Mortgage Borrowers.</a></li>
<li><a title="Senior Loses Home After Listening to “Reverse Mortgages Are Bad” Advice" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2012/03/01/senior-loses-home-after-listening-to-reverse-mortgages-are-bad-advice/" target="_blank">Senior Loses Home After Listening To “Reverse Mortgages Are Bad” Advice</a></li>
<li><a title="Seventeen Facts About Reverse Mortgages You May Not Know." href="http://http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2011/04/30/1624-seventeen-facts-about-reverse-mortgages-you-may-not-know/" target="_blank">Seventeen Facts About Reverse Mortgages You May Not Know</a></li>
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		<description><![CDATA[It's the season of hope and new growth and opportunity.  Flowers are blooming, trees are budding, the grass is growing.  As with the season, seniors can find this hope, new growth and have new opportunities that they can remain in their home with security, independence, dignity and control.  And like the many types of flowers, buds and new growth, the variety of how the reverse mortgage funds are used and numerous, basically endless.  Here are some of the ways seniors have found hope and opportunity with their reverse mortgage. http://wp.me/pxPEm-y9<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com&#038;blog=8063370&#038;post=2117&#038;subd=bethsreversemortgageblog&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:#800080;"><a href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/100_1299.jpg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-2128" title="Seniors find hope and opportunity with reverse mortgages" src="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/100_1299.jpg?w=315&h=232" alt="Seniors find hope and opportunity with reverse mortgages" width="315" height="232" /></a>It&#8217;s the season of hope and new growth and opportunity.  Flowers are blooming, trees are budding, the grass is growing. <strong> As with the season, seniors can find this hope, new growth and have new opportunities that they can remain in their home with security, independence, dignity and control. </strong> <strong>And like the many types of flowers, buds and new growth, the variety of how the reverse mortgage funds are used and numerous, basically endless.</strong>  Here are some of the ways seniors have found hope and opportunity with their reverse mortgage.</span></p>
<ul>
<li>Stay in one’s home where they may have raised their family, are familiar with the neighborhood and their neighbors and where they usually want to remain.</li>
<li>Pay off a current mortgage to eliminate the monthly mortgage payments.</li>
<li>Save one’s home when faced with foreclosure or tax forfeiture.</li>
<li>Have improved cash flow with no monthly mortgage payments.</li>
<li> Have funds for making home improvements or home modifications.</li>
<li> Retire and not feeling like you have to work just to have money to pay the bills.</li>
<li> Have cash flow to be able to pay taxes.</li>
<li> Have funds to pay for home health care.</li>
<li> Have funds for some assistance with home care or companion services.</li>
<li> Have funds for adult day services.</li>
<li> Have funds for medical expenses and prescriptions.<a href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/100_1301.jpg"><img class="alignright  wp-image-2129" title="Seniors find hope and opportunity with reverse mortgages" src="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/100_1301.jpg?w=292&h=217" alt="Seniors find hope and opportunity with reverse mortgages" width="292" height="217" /></a></li>
<li> Afford going to the dentist.</li>
<li> Afford new eye glasses.</li>
<li> Have funds for the needed hearing aid.</li>
<li> Have funds to cover long term care expenses.</li>
<li> Cover everyday living expenses.</li>
<li> Not rely on credit cards.</li>
<li> Not rely on children.</li>
<li> Have funds for the little extras in life, like:
<ul>
<li>getting one’s hair done,</li>
<li>having cable TV,</li>
<li>buying groceries,</li>
<li>going to lunch with friends,</li>
<li>treating their children to dinner,</li>
<li>going to community plays or the theater or a concert,</li>
<li>taking the grandchildren to the zoo or a movie,</li>
<li>Depends (I had a client say with their reverse mortgage they could now afford to buy Depends),</li>
<li>being able to do hobbies.</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Purchase a more dependable car</li>
<li>Afford transportation if one can no longer drive.</li>
<li>Afford the travel for the family wedding or reunion.</li>
<li>Take the vacation they have dreamed of all their life.</li>
<li>Protect some of their other retirement funds or investments where there might be taxes or penalties on withdrawals.</li>
<li>Purchase a new home to downsize and/or  move closer to family</li>
<li>Have funds for emergencies.</li>
<li>Reduce financial stress.</li>
<li>Have funds to full fill needs and goals.</li>
<li>To live with security, independence, dignity and control.</li>
</ul>
<p><span style="color:#800080;"><a href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/p1010141.jpg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-2126" title="Seniors find hope and opportunity with reverse mortgages" src="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/p1010141.jpg?w=238&h=177" alt="Seniors find hope and opportunity with reverse mortgages" width="238" height="177" /></a>It&#8217;s fulfilling to me to be able to help seniors find hope, growth, and opportunity with  reverse mortgage (visit the links below for some stories).  <strong>A reverse mortgage has given hope and opportunity to thousands of Minnesota seniors so they can remain in their home with security, independence, dignity and control even during trying times.</strong>  If you know a senior who is looking for hope and opportunity, a reverse mortgage may be their answer.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#008000;">To determine if a reverse mortgage is right for one’s situation, talk with an experienced licensed reverse mortgage expert to get the facts.  Learn some of the facts at our website: <a title="Reverse Mortgages SIDAC - MN Reverse Mortgages" href="http://www.rmsidac.com/" target="_blank"><span style="color:#008000;">www.RMSIDAC.com</span></a>.  “<a title="What To Consider When Talking To Reverse Mortgage Lenders" href="http://www.rmsidac.com/WhattoConsiderWhenTalkingtoLenders.php" target="_blank"><span style="color:#008000;">What to Consider When Talking With Reverse Mortgage Lenders</span></a>” will help you determine questions to ask when choosing your originator.</span></p>
<p style="text-align:right;"><a title="Beth's Reverse Mortgage Blog" href="http://BethsReverseMortgageBlog.wordpress.com" target="_blank">© 2012 Beth Paterson http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com 651-762-9648</a></p>
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<p><span style="color:#993366;"><strong>Related articles of stories on how seniors have used the reverse mortgage and how it’s made a difference in their lives:</strong></span></p>
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<li><a title="Reverse Mortgages Answers Prayers" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2009/10/05/reverse-mortgages-answer-prayers/" target="_blank"> Reverse Mortgages Answers Prayers</a></li>
<li><a title="Finance Retirement With A Reverse Mortgage" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2009/11/10/finance-retirement-with-a-reverse-mortgage/" target="_blank"> Finance Retirement With A Reverse Mortgage</a></li>
<li><a title="Know A Senior Who Wants Security, Independence, Dignity And Control? A Reverse Mortgage May Bet The Answer" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2009/09/21/know-a-senior-who-wants-security-independence-dignity-and-control-a-reverse-mortgage-may-be-the-answer/" target="_blank"> Know a Senior Who Wants Security, Independence  Dignity ,And Control? A Reverse Mortgage May Be The Answer</a></li>
<li><a title="Reverse Mortgages Help Celebrate Independence" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2009/07/07/reverse-mortgages-help-celebrate-independence/" target="_blank"> Reverse Mortgages Help Celebrate Independence</a></li>
<li><a title="Reverse Mortgages Finance Home Care" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2009/11/03/551-reverse-mortgages-finance-home-care/" target="_blank"> Reverse Mortgages Help Finance Home Care</a></li>
<li><a title="Respect For Oneself Increases With A Reverse Mortgage" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2010/01/29/respect-for-oneself-increases-with-a-reverse-mortgage/" target="_blank"> Respect for Oneself Increases With A Reverse Mortgage</a></li>
<li><a title="Can't Afford To Retire?  Maybe There's An Answer!" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2010/08/16/can%E2%80%99t-afford-to-retire-maybe-there%E2%80%99s-an-answer/" target="_blank"> Can’t Afford To Retire? A Reverse Mortgage May Be The Answer</a></li>
<li><a title="Reverse Mortgage Helps Minnesota Senior To Be Prepared For Future" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2010/04/17/reverse-mortgage-helps-minnesota-senior-to-be-prepared-for-future/" target="_blank"> Reverse Mortgage Helps MN Senior To Be Prepared For The Future</a></li>
<li><a title="Reverse Mortgage Allowed Creation of memories for Family" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2011/03/05/reverse-mortgage-allowed-creation-of-memories-for-family/" target="_blank"> Reverse Mortgage Allowed Creation of Family Memories</a></li>
<li><a title="Reverse Mortgages Equal Independence for Seniors" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2010/07/02/reverse-mortgages-equal-independence-for-seniors/" target="_blank"> Reverse Mortgages Equal Independence For Seniors</a></li>
<li><a title="Reverse Mortgages Come To The Rescure For Senior Homeowners" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2010/02/28/reverse-mortgages-come-to-the-rescue-for-senior-homeowners/" target="_blank"> Reverse Mortgages Come To The Rescue for Senior Homeowners</a></li>
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		<dc:creator>Beth Paterson, MLO #342859</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[While the media often feeds into the myths and misconceptions about reverse mortgages, the past two weeks there were two pieces that provided accurate and good information about this finance option for seniors:  http://wp.me/pxPEm-xX<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com&#038;blog=8063370&#038;post=2105&#038;subd=bethsreversemortgageblog&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/03/1coupleviewingcomputer.jpg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-2106" title="Couple Getting Reverse Mortgage Info" src="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/03/1coupleviewingcomputer.jpg?w=229&h=151" alt="Couple Getting Reverse Mortgage Info" width="229" height="151" /></a>While the media often feeds into the myths and misconceptions about reverse mortgages, the past two weeks there were two pieces that provided accurate and good information about this finance option for seniors.</p>
<p>First was a post in the New York Times on March15th titled, &#8220;<a title="More Homeowners Seek Reverse Mortgages At Earlier Age" href="http://bucks.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/03/15/more-homeowners-seek-reverse-mortgages-at-earlier-age/" target="_blank">More Homeowners Seek Reverse Mortgages At Earlier Age</a>&#8220;  <a title="More Homeowners Seek Reverse Mortgages At Earlier Age" href="http://bucks.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/03/15/more-homeowners-seek-reverse-mortgages-at-earlier-age/" target="_blank">http://bucks.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/03/15/more-homeowners-seek-reverse-mortgages-at-earlier-age/ </a></p>
<p>And on March 21, <a title="NBC'sToday Show Money 911" href="http://www.finishrich.com/blog/nbcs-today-show-money-911-march-21-2012/" target="_blank">NBC Today Money 911</a> panelists provided a good answer to a daughter who thinks she should get an inheritance rather than her mother having done the reverse mortgage.  <a title="NBC'sToday Show Money 911" href="http://www.finishrich.com/blog/nbcs-today-show-money-911-march-21-2012/" target="_blank">http://www.finishrich.com/</a><a title="NBC'sToday Show Money 911" href="http://www.finishrich.com/blog/nbcs-today-show-money-911-march-21-2012/" target="_blank">blog/</a><a title="NBC'sToday Show Money 911" href="http://www.finishrich.com/blog/nbcs-today-show-money-911-march-21-2012/" target="_blank">nbcs-today-show-money-911-march</a><a title="NBC'sToday Show Money 911" href="http://www.finishrich.com/blog/nbcs-today-show-money-911-march-21-2012/" target="_blank">-21-2012/</a></p>
<p>The reverse mortgage provides funds for the senior&#8217;s needs and wants.  It helps them have money for their security, independence, dignity and control&#8230; no matter what their age.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s good to see the media catching on and providing facts for a change.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Mar 2012 02:57:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a call from a 65 year old woman, Ann, inquiring about a reverse mortgage stating she owed over $20,000 in back taxes and was facing tax forfeiture in just a few short months.  Ann had no other debt and her home was worth more than $300,000.  Based on her situation, she wouldn’t qualify for a conventional or “forward” mortgage.  Someone had suggested the reverse mortgage a solution to her situation.

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/large-house.jpg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-2083" title="House gong into tax forfeiture" src="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/large-house.jpg?w=201&h=150" alt="House goiing into tax forfeiture" width="201" height="150" /></a><span style="color:#800000;">I got a call from a 65 year old woman, Ann, inquiring about a reverse mortgage stating she owed over $20,000 in back taxes and was facing tax forfeiture in just a few short months.  Ann had no other debt and her home was worth more than $300,000.  Based on her situation, she wouldn’t qualify for a conventional or “forward” mortgage.  Someone had suggested the reverse mortgage a solution to her situation.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>I explained that a reverse mortgage is a mortgage with special terms for those 62 and older.</strong>  As an FHA insured loan HUD oversees the Home Equity Conversion Mortgage or HECM providing protections like no other financial option.  With the HECM there are no income or credit score qualifications* and no monthly payment requirements.  <strong>The home would remain hers with the title in her name.  And the reverse mortgage funds could pay off her tax debt and she could leave the remaining funds in a Line of Credit with a growth rate for future needs including paying her property taxes going forward. </strong> Or if she chose she could receive monthly payments, a lump sum or a combination of these options.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;">I went on to explain that the loan would be due and payable when the home was no longer her primary residence or on her 150th birthday.  If at the time the loan was due and payable the home was sold for more than the loan balance she or her estate would receive the difference in funds.  Or if the loan balance was higher than what the home could be sold for, as a non-recourse loan she or her estate would not have to come up with the difference, the FHA Mortgage Insurance covers the difference.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#800000;">She of course wanted to think about it.  During a follow-up conversation she said she had talked with <strong>her brother who told her she shouldn’t do the reverse mortgage because they are bad</strong>.  When I inquired why he thought they were bad, <strong>she didn’t have a response</strong>.  I asked if her brother could come up with the funds to pay her back taxes&#8230;  “Maybe.” </span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>I reiterated the details and benefits of the reverse mortgage emphasizing that the funds could pay the back taxes and she would have funds in a line of credit for her future taxes and that she wouldn’t have to make monthly payments.</strong>  I also offered to meet with her and her brother to educate them on the details and facts of the reverse mortgage.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#800000;">A couple weeks later during another follow-up conversation, she was still hesitant because of her brother’s advice.  I again inquired if her brother could come up with the funds for her back taxes&#8230; “<strong>No, he doesn’t have that kind of money!</strong>” <strong>With an inquiry if she had another way of coming up with the funds for the back taxes&#8230; no she didn’t</strong>.  And her brother didn’t want to meet to learn the details and facts of the reverse mortgage.  I explained that if the county foreclosed on her home she would be losing around $280,000 in equity.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#800000;">Time was getting down to the wire in order for us to have time to process the reverse mortgage so I did one more follow-up call.  She said her brother warned her not to do the reverse mortgage because they were “bad” and expensive.  I reviewed the <a title="Comparing Reverse Mortgage Closing Costs To A Conventional Mortgage – You’ll Be Surprised They Are Not That Different" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2011/07/24/1802comparing-reverse-mortgage-closing-costs-to-a-conventional-mortgage-youll-be-surprised-they-are-not-that-different/" target="_blank">costs</a> explaining they compare to a conventional mortgage other than the FHA mortgage insurance.  <strong>And even beyond that the benefit of the reverse mortgage outweighed the costs&#8230; saving her home from foreclosure and the loss of around $280,000 in equity.**</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;">A few months later when I checked the county records,<strong> the county was the owner of her property</strong>.</span><a href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/money-flying1.jpg"><img class="alignright  wp-image-2090" title="Lost equity due to tax forfeiture" src="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/money-flying1.jpg?w=239&h=159" alt="Lost equity due to tax forfeiture" width="239" height="159" /></a></p>
<p><strong><span style="color:#800000;">Listening to her brother who did not know, and was unwilling to learn the details and facts of the reverse mortgage, Ann had lost her home and a lot of equity.  With all the benefits and protections, the reverse mortgage would have made a huge difference in the quality of her life.</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;">It was sad and unfortunate that she listened to the unwise advice of “Don’t do a reverse mortgage, they are bad.”</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>Next time you hear &#8220;Reverse mortgages are bad&#8221; or &#8220;Don&#8217;t do a reverse mortgage&#8221; or &#8220;One should wait until their 70&#8242;s to do a reverse mortgage&#8221; remember this story and how the reverse mortgage could have made a difference.</strong></span></p>
<p>*In the near future we anticipate financial assessments to determine if the borrowers are able to pay property taxes and insurance into the future.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was at a resource provider network meeting the other morning when a Minnesota County government agency talked about their financial and foreclosure counseling services.  When I mentioned they should keep in mind that a reverse mortgage should be considered for homeowners over 62 the response was resistance.  Here’s how the conversation went. http://wp.me/pxPEm-xc<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com&#038;blog=8063370&#038;post=2058&#038;subd=bethsreversemortgageblog&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/business-meeting.jpg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-2063" title="Resource Networking Meeting" src="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/business-meeting.jpg?w=217&h=143" alt="Resource Networking Meeting" width="217" height="143" /></a>I was at a resource provider network meeting the other morning when a Minnesota County government agency talked about their financial and foreclosure counseling services.  When I mentioned they should keep in mind that a reverse mortgage should be considered for homeowners over 62 the response was resistance.  Here’s how the conversation went.</p>
<p>Me: <span style="color:#800080;">“Keep in mind that a reverse mortgage may be an option for your clients who are homeowners 62 and over.”</span></p>
<p>Agency:<span style="color:#008000;"><em> “Our clients don’t qualify for a reverse mortgage.”</em></span></p>
<p>Me: <span style="color:#800080;">“Why do you say that?  Are they homeowners 62 and over?”</span></p>
<p>Agency with hesitancy:<span style="color:#008000;"><em> “Some, but not many.”</em></span></p>
<p>Me: <span style="color:#800080;">“Well for those 62 and over a reverse mortgage may help them.”</span></p>
<p>Agency, again with hesitancy: <span style="color:#008000;"><em>“They are in foreclosure.”</em></span></p>
<p>Me:<span style="color:#800080;"> “But a reverse mortgage may help <a title="At The Eleventh Hour…  Reverse Mortgage Used To Save MN Senior’s Home" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2010/06/20/1323-at-the-eleventh-hour-reverse-mortgage-used-to-save-mn-seniors-home/" target="_blank">save their home from foreclosure</a>.”</span></p>
<p>Agency, defensively:<span style="color:#008000;"><em> “But one spouse may not be 62.”</em></span></p>
<p>Me: <span style="color:#800080;">“The requirement is that both borrowers be 62 so the younger one would need to be removed from the title, and while that is risky and not normally recommended, if it’s a matter of losing their home or being able to stay in their home, the reverse mortgage may be an option.  It’s at least worth considering.*”</span></p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;"><span style="color:#800080;"><span style="color:#000000;">*I suggest they talk with an attorney so they are aware of the risks of removing a younger person from the title.</span><br />
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<p>Agency:<span style="color:#008000;"><em> “But there may not be enough funds to pay off their mortgage.”</em></span></p>
<p>Me: <span style="color:#800080;">“We can work with the banks to negotiate them taking the reverse mortgage proceeds as a payoff.  It’s been done where the banks accept the reverse mortgage as a payoff.  It can be a challenge but it is at least worth a discussion and a try.  We have done some amazing things.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#800080;">“All I’m saying is that instead of saying there aren’t options, we can&#8217;t help, the reverse mortgage should at least considered as an option and explored for those over 62.”</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#008000;"><strong>This conversation raises the question, why are people resistant to reverse mortgages when it <a title="“Our Reverse Mortgage Is Great. Gives Us Some Elbow Room.” And More Testimonies by Reverse Mortgage Borrowers" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2011/09/25/%e2%80%9cour-reverse-mortgage-is-great-gives-us-some-elbow-room-%e2%80%9d-and-more-testimonies-by-reverse-mortgage-borrowers/" target="_blank">can make such a difference in the lives of seniors</a>?</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#008000;">Are they so hung up that it’s not their agency solving the problem they don’t think anyone can?  Or is it they don’t want someone else to help?  Are they afraid that someone else can help and they can’t?  Is it because their funding depends on them solving the problem and it’s more beneficial to them to not help and not provide all options?  Is it because they are a non-profit government agency and we are a private for-profit company?  Is it they don’t think I should get paid for my services</span> (after all as a government non-profit agency and as paid staff they are making a salary with sick days and vacation days while I’m commissioned, no paid sick or vacation days.)? <span style="color:#008000;"> Or is it they just don&#8217;t understand reverse mortgages?</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#800080;">I don’t understand why they or others wouldn’t want to offer an option that may <a title="Reverse Mortgages Come To The Rescue for Senior Homeowners" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2010/02/28/reverse-mortgages-come-to-the-rescue-for-senior-homeowners/" target="_blank">benefit the seniors</a> even if it’s not their program that solves the problem.  Even if it <a title="“Our Reverse Mortgage Is Great. Gives Us Some Elbow Room.” And More Testimonies by Reverse Mortgage Borrowers" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2011/09/25/%e2%80%9cour-reverse-mortgage-is-great-gives-us-some-elbow-room-%e2%80%9d-and-more-testimonies-by-reverse-mortgage-borrowers/" target="_blank">helps just one person/couple</a>, isn&#8217;t it worth it?</span></p>
<p>A reverse mortgage is a mortgage that has special terms for those 62 and older to use their equity while they still own and live in the home.  Income and credit aren’t considered to qualify for an interest rate and monthly payments are not required during the term of the loan.  The loan is due when the home is no longer the primary residence of the borrower(s).</p>
<p>The most common reverse mortgage, and only one available in Minnesota, is the HUD Home Equity Conversion Mortgage or HECM which is insured by FHA.  The borrowers pay a FHA Mortgage Insurance Premium (MIP).</p>
<p>When the loan is being paid off, the borrower or the estate keep any difference between the loan balance and the sale price.  As a non-recourse loan, if the loan balance is higher than the sale price on the home, the lender is repaid the fair market value and the borrower doesn’t have to pay the difference &#8211; the FHA MIP covers the difference. The loan documents spell out there is no personal liability to the borrower or their estate, unlike conventional mortgages that can get funds from the estate to cover the loan balance.</p>
<p><span style="color:#008000;">One of the other meeting attendees commented to me after the meeting, “It appears they don’t really care to be helping people.”  That’s a sad impression to give when you are an agency paid to help the community.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#800080;">I believe we all need to work together and offer options to help, whether non-profit, government or private for-profit.  If the reverse mortgage is considered and explored but is not the right option, I want to be able to know about other options and people who may help so I can do referrals to someone who might be able to assist them.  This is why I attend provider network meetings to learn about resources and options.</span></p>
<p><strong>I wish others wouldn’t be so resistant to reverse mortgages when they can make such a difference for seniors.</strong></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you hear any of these eleven statements from a homeowner 62 and older a reverse mortgage may benefit them.  They should be encouraged to get the facts to see if a reverse mortgage is right for their situation.  Read the statements here: http://wp.me/pxPEm-wT<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com&#038;blog=8063370&#038;post=2039&#038;subd=bethsreversemortgageblog&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="color:#800080;"><a href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/1blackcouple.jpg"><img class="alignright  wp-image-2047" title="Enjoying remaining at home with a HECM reverse mortgage" src="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/1blackcouple.jpg?w=262&h=173" alt="Enjoying remaining at home with a HECM reverse mortgage" width="262" height="173" /></a>When you hear any of these eleven statements from a homeowner 62 and older a reverse mortgage may benefit them.  They should be encouraged to get the facts to see if a reverse mortgage is right for their situation.</span></strong></p>
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<li><em><strong><span style="color:#800080;">“I want to stay in my home.”</span></strong></em></li>
<li><em><strong><span style="color:#800080;">“My only option is to move.”</span></strong></em></li>
<li><em><strong><span style="color:#800080;">“I can&#8217;t afford home health care.”</span></strong></em></li>
<li><em><strong><span style="color:#800080;">&#8220;We can&#8217;t afford a mortgage payment.&#8221;</span></strong></em></li>
<li><em><strong><span style="color:#800080;">“We can’t afford to make home repairs or modifications.”</span></strong></em></li>
<li><em><strong><span style="color:#800080;">“Not enough money at the end of the Social Security check.”</span></strong></em></li>
<li><em><strong><span style="color:#800080;">“I need help with keeping up my home with housekeeping or yard work.”</span></strong></em></li>
<li><em><strong><span style="color:#800080;">“I’m downsizing and moving.” or “I’m moving closer to my children.”</span></strong></em></li>
<li><em><strong><span style="color:#800080;">They need funds for retirement planning.</span></strong></em></li>
<li><em><strong><span style="color:#800080;">They can&#8217;t afford the little extras that would help them maintain and enjoy their life.</span></strong></em></li>
<li><em><strong><span style="color:#800080;">They want Security, Independence, Dignity, and Control which they are missing in some way now.</span></strong></em></li>
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<p>A reverse mortgage is a mortgage with special terms for seniors 62 and older.  Some of the differences include income and credit scores are not considered to qualify for the interest rate and monthly mortgage payments are not required.  Rather than a 15 or 30 year term, the loan is due and payable when the home is no longer the primary residence of the borrowers or on the 150th birthday of the youngest borrower.  In addition, the reverse mortgage is non-recourse, which means if the loan balance is higher than what the home can be sold for there is no personal liability to the borrower or their heirs.  If the home is sold for more than the loan balance, the borrower or their heirs receive the difference.  The most common and only reverse mortgage available in Minnesota is the FHA HUD insured Home Equity Conversion Mortgage or HECM.</p>
<p><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>Options are available!  When you hear any of the above statements remember a reverse mortgage may be the option that is the most beneficial to their situation.</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align:right;"><a title="Beth's Reverse Mortgage Blog" href="http://www.bethsrevesremortgageblog.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">© 2012 Beth Paterson http://bethsreve’rsemortgageblog.wordpress.com </a></p>
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<li><a title="Reverse Mortgages Help Celebrate Independence" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2009/07/07/reverse-mortgages-help-celebrate-independence/" target="_blank">Reverse Mortgages Help Celebrate Independence</a></li>
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<li><a title="Know a Senior Who Wants Security, Independence, Dignity, and Control?  A Reverse Mortgage May Be The Answer!" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2009/09/21/know-a-senior-who-wants-security-independence-dignity-and-control-a-reverse-mortgage-may-be-the-answer/" target="_blank">Know A Senior Who Wants Security, Independence, Dignity And Control? A Reverse Mortgage May Be The Answer!</a></li>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 04:49:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was privileged to present a webinar for GrandCare Systems webinar series:

Where The Heart Is: Using Technology To Remain At Home

You have the opportunity to listen to and view the webinar.

Seniors have always wanted to remain at home. Now with the housing market where it is, seniors are staying at home even longer. We’ll discuss how using technology adds benefits to remaining at home.

In this webinar you will learn:

    How housing conditions are impacting seniors remaining in their homes longer.
    The benefits of using technology to remain at home.
    How using technology and a reverse mortgage can be cost effective and expand the time one can remain at home vs moving to senior housing.  http://wp.me/pxPEm-wH<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com&#038;blog=8063370&#038;post=2027&#038;subd=bethsreversemortgageblog&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was privileged to present a webinar for <a title="Grand Care Systems" href="http://www.grandcare.com/page/home">GrandCare Systems</a> webinar series:</p>
<p><span style="color:#333399;"><strong>Where The Heart Is: Using Technology To Remain At Home<br />
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<p><span style="color:#000000;">You have the opportunity to listen and view the webinar.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#333399;">Seniors have always wanted to remain at home. Now with the housing market where it is, seniors are staying at home even longer. We’ll discuss how using technology adds benefits to remaining at home.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#333399;">In this webinar you will learn:</span></p>
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<li><span style="color:#333399;">How housing conditions are impacting seniors remaining in their homes longer.</span></li>
<li><span style="color:#333399;">The benefits of using technology to remain at home.</span></li>
<li><span style="color:#333399;">How using technology and a reverse mortgage can be cost effective and expand the time one can remain at home vs moving to senior housing.</span></li>
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<p>Access the webinar here:  <a title="Where The Heart Is: Using Technology To Remain At Home Webinar" href="http://grandcare.wordpress.com/2011/12/07/1215-webinar-where-the-heart-is-using-technology-to-remain-at-home-with/" target="_blank">http://grandcare.wordpress.com/2011/12/07/1215-webinar-where-the-heart-is-using-technology-to-remain-at-home-with/</a></p>
<p style="text-align:right;"><span style="color:#c10000;">© 2011 Beth Paterson http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com 651-762-9648</span></p>
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<li><a title="Need Home Modifications To Age In Place?  A Reverse Mortgage May Help" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2010/09/12/need-home-modifications-to-age-in-place-a-reverse-mortgage-may-help/" target="_blank">Need Home Modifications To Age In Place? A Reverse Mortgage May Help</a></li>
<li><a title="A Reverse Mortgage Should Be A Last Resort… To What?" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2011/06/07/a-reverse-mortgage-should-be-a-last-resort-to-what/" target="_blank">A Reverse Mortgage Should Be A Last Resort… To What?</a></li>
<li><a title="“Our Reverse Mortgage Is Great. Gives Us Some Elbow Room.” And More Testimonies by Reverse Mortgage Borrowers" href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com/2011/09/25/%e2%80%9cour-reverse-mortgage-is-great-gives-us-some-elbow-room-%e2%80%9d-and-more-testimonies-by-reverse-mortgage-borrowers/" target="_blank">“Our Reverse Mortgage Is Great, Gives Us Some Elbow Room” And More Testimonies By Reverse Mortgage Borrowers</a></li>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 19:15:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My reverse mortgage borrowers often call to say “Thank you!” for helping them obtain their reverse mortgage.  They proceed to tell me what a difference it has made in their lives as well as for their families.  I always appreciate hearing from them as well as hearing their stories.

I also receive comments and notes of appreciation from others who work with seniors, my referral sources, the vendors who we need to do a reverse mortgage and operate our business, and those in my networks.

For me it goes beyond receiving the thank you’s from others.  I too have to say “Thank you!” to my reverse mortgage borrowers and all I work with for the opportunity I have to serve.  I am rewarded to be able to assist in making a difference in the lives of seniors.  I  recognize that it is because of you I have this opportunity to serve and I feel blessed to be able to do so.

Many years ago I found the following poem on a restaurant place mat.   http://wp.me/pxPEm-wo<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com&#038;blog=8063370&#038;post=2008&#038;subd=bethsreversemortgageblog&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:left;"><a href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2011/11/fall-colors-oak-leaves-orange-small2.jpg"><img class="wp-image-2018 alignright" title="Giving Thanks Because of Our Reverse Mortgage Borrowers (c) 2008 Beth Paterson" src="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2011/11/fall-colors-oak-leaves-orange-small2.jpg?w=296&h=220" alt="Giving Thanks Because of Our Reverse Mortgage Borrowers (c) 2008 Beth Paterson" width="296" height="220" /></a>My reverse mortgage borrowers often call to say “Thank you!” for helping them obtain their reverse mortgage.  They proceed to tell me what a difference it has made in their lives as well as for their families.  I always appreciate hearing from them as well as hearing their stories.</p>
<p>I also receive comments and notes of appreciation from others who work with seniors, my referral sources, the vendors who we need to do a reverse mortgage and operate our business, and those in my networks.</p>
<p><span style="color:#008000;"><strong>For me it goes beyond receiving the thank you’s from others.  I too have to say “Thank you!”  Thank you to my reverse mortgage borrowers and all I work with for the opportunity I have to serve.  I am rewarded to be able to assist in making a difference in the lives of seniors.  I  recognize that it is because of you I have this opportunity to serve and I feel blessed to be able to do so.</strong></span></p>
<p>Many years ago I found the following poem on a restaurant place mat.  I don’t know who wrote it but I did copy it down and have it hanging on my office wall&#8230; a wonderful reminder.</p>
<h2 style="text-align:center;"><strong><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><span style="color:#800000;text-decoration:underline;">Because the Customer</span></span></strong></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:center;"><strong><span style="color:#800000;">Because the customer has a need,</span></strong><br />
<strong> <span style="color:#800000;">we have a job to do.</span></strong></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:center;"><strong><span style="color:#800000;">Because the customer has a choice,</span></strong><br />
<strong> <span style="color:#800000;">we must be the better choice.</span></strong></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:center;"><strong><span style="color:#800000;">Because the customer has sensibilities,</span></strong><br />
<strong> <span style="color:#800000;">we must be considerate.</span></strong></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:center;"><strong><span style="color:#800000;">Because the customer has urgency,</span></strong><br />
<strong> <span style="color:#800000;">we must be quick.</span></strong></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:center;"><strong><span style="color:#800000;">Because the customer is unique,</span></strong><br />
<strong> <span style="color:#800000;">we must be flexible</span></strong></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:center;"><strong><span style="color:#800000;">Because the customer has high expectations,</span></strong><br />
<strong> <span style="color:#800000;">we must excel.</span></strong></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:center;"><strong><span style="color:#800000;">Because the customer has influence,</span></strong><br />
<strong> <span style="color:#800000;">we have the hope of more customers.</span></strong></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:center;"><strong><span style="color:#800000;">Because of the customer,</span></strong><br />
<strong> <span style="color:#800000;">we exist!</span></strong></h2>
<p><span style="color:#008000;"><strong>Thank you to my reverse mortgage borrowers, my referral sources, my vendors, my networks and all who help make a difference in the lives of seniors.  It is because of YOU I exist and am so rewarded.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff6600;"><strong>May you find reasons to give thanks for the blessings in your lives this Thanksgiving day and every day.</strong></span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Does what you’ve heard about reverse mortgages make you afraid of them?  Has your fear kept you from getting the facts to see if one might benefit you?

A reverse mortgage is a mortgage with special terms for seniors 62 and older.  The most popular, and only one available in Minnesota, a Home Equity Conversion Mortgage or HECM, is insured by HUD.  Let’s look at twelve reasons you shouldn’t be afraid of reverse mortgages. http://wp.me/pxPEm-w7<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bethsreversemortgageblog.wordpress.com&#038;blog=8063370&#038;post=1991&#038;subd=bethsreversemortgageblog&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/number-12.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1994" title="Twelve Reasons You Should  Not To Be Afraid To Do A Reverse Mortgage" src="http://bethsreversemortgageblog.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/number-12.jpg?w=112&h=150" alt="Twelve Reasons You Should  Not To Be Afraid To Do A Reverse Mortgage" width="112" height="150" /></a>Does what you’ve heard about reverse mortgages make you afraid of them?  Has your fear kept you from getting the facts to see if one might benefit you?</p>
<p>A reverse mortgage is a mortgage with special terms for seniors 62 and older.  The most popular, and only one available in Minnesota, a Home Equity Conversion Mortgage or HECM, is insured by HUD.  <span style="color:#800080;"><strong>Let’s look at twelve reasons you shouldn’t be afraid of reverse mortgages.</strong></span></p>
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<li><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>Reverse mortgages are highly protected</strong></span> &#8211; One of the protections includes that borrowers receive counseling from a HUD trained and approved third-party counselor.  Others include prohibiting cross-selling, disclosures and implementing requirements that limit scams and fraud.</li>
<li><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>No monthly payments required</strong></span> - Your cash flow improves because you don&#8217;t have to make a monthly mortgage payment.   Instead of making monthly mortgage payments, the reverse mortgage is due when the home is no longer the primary residence of the borrower(s) or on the 150th birthday of the youngest borrower.  And with no monthly mortgage payments required, the risk of foreclosure is reduced.</li>
<li><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>A variety of program options are available</strong></span> &#8211; The HECM Standard, HECM Saver and Home Purchase Programs are available with a fixed rate and adjustable rate options.  This gives you options to find one that is right for your situation.</li>
<li><strong><span style="color:#800080;">The interest rate is not determined by your income and credit score</span></strong> &#8211; The interest rate is based on the program chosen, no matter what one’s income or credit score is.  With a conventional mortgage, one’s credit score, income and assets will impact the interest rate of their loan &#8211; with a fixed income the interest rate is likely to be higher if one even qualifies for a conventional mortgage.</li>
<li><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>Funds are guaranteed to be available during the term of the loan</strong></span> &#8211; As long as one abides by the terms of the loan, the funds are guaranteed to be available.  Borrowers are responsible to pay property taxes, insurance and maintain the home and if applicable pay home owner association fees.</li>
<li><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>Flexibility on how funds are received</strong></span> &#8211; Funds are available to borrowers in a line of credit (has a growth rate), monthly payments (structured to your needs), lump sum or a combination of these.</li>
<li><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>No limitations on how the funds can be used</strong></span> &#8211; One can use the funds received from the reverse mortgage however they choose &#8211; there are no restrictions.  The reverse mortgage is like any other mortgage where the borrower is using the equity of their home to meet their needs and desires now.</li>
<li><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>The title stays in your name</strong></span> &#8211; the bank does NOT own your home, you continue to own the home.</li>
<li><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>Closing costs are comparable to conventional loans</strong></span> &#8211; as with any mortgage there are closing costs.  While often said to be expensive, actually the reverse mortgage closing costs compare to those of a conventional loan.</li>
<li><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>Fees charged are regulated by HUD</strong></span> &#8211; HUD only allows the necessary fees which are standard and customary &#8211; no mark up and “junk” fees are allowed.</li>
<li><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>Reverse mortgages are non-recourse</strong></span> &#8211; This means if the loan balance is higher than what the home can be sold for, the borrower or their estate does not have to come up with the difference.  If the home is sold for more than the loan balance, the difference goes to the borrower or their heirs.</li>
<li><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>Social Security and Medicare are not Impacted</strong></span> &#8211; One can still receive Social Security and Medicare with a reverse mortgage.  Medicaid may also be received under ceratin circumstances.  The reverse mortgage is a loan and the proceeds are not considered income.</li>
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<p><span style="color:#800080;"><strong>Face your fear and get the facts about reverse mortgages and see if one may be right for your situation.  You may find that a reverse mortgage could make your life easier and provide you cash for your needs and desires.</strong></span></p>
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